Skinny fast

firstly, I’m not skinny and I have the most wonderful husband, he’s gorgeous and he’s funny, plus when I met him, he was a very fit soldier ;) not to mention he’s 4 years my junior!!

getting a guy isn’t about being skiny, it’s about having a good personality and having chemistry…being slim WON’T help you attract a guy, unless all you want is a giy that’s superficial? I know I woulnd’t!!

two things REALLY put a guy off;

1. a girl who goes on about their weight and what they can or can’t eat - most guys want to go out for dinner with a girl whose interested in them, not how many calories are on their plate!.. 2)girls who NEED a boyfriend. having a boyfriend isn’t mandatory…being independent and confident is the most important thing…and THAT’S more attracting than anything!

you should learn to be happy in yourself, no guy is going to give you that confidence… get a life where you have to ‘fit’ a man in…have friends..have fun and enjoy life.. it’s not about being slim it’s about being happy…

focus on having male friends, not making them boyfriends…guys want to feel comfortable with the person they’re with, if your on edge all the time, it makes life difficult!

I know that this wont convince you, and I’m not gay or anything but from your picture in my opinion you are very beautiful. Seriously. And though it doesn’t show your whole body you look very slim. Studies have actually shown that the majority of males are most physically attracted to women with a BMI of 20 and higher- the results of what was considered attractive dropped dramatically the skinnier the women were. Women with a BMI of under 18.5 were considered the most unattractive of all women. Even women who were overweight scored better than those who were skinny. Starving yourself is so dangerous and causes osteoparosis, heart failure (risk of death), hair loss, blue and yellow discoloration of the lips and skin and extreme sensitivity to the cold which believe me is absolutely horrible. Being skinny really isn’t attractive.

starving yourself is a really stupid thing to do if you want to lose weight. and the reason behind that is when you starve your body, the next time you eat your body will save as much as it can and add body fat to your body. eat salads and workout. maintain a balanced diet and excercise the right way and it will cause you to lose weight the right way. thats just one solution. talk to a nutrtionist or a dietition to lose weight THE RIGHT WAY!!! hope this helps you.