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ok .. I was datin this guy for almost a year and well I was in love with him but I don’t know what happen that we just broke up . (he didnt have time for me and he thought he was hurting me so decided to break it off ) so then we break up I dont hear ANYTHING from him for 2 MONTHS … then one random day I get a phone call and its him … he wanted to know how I was doing and everything .. so we talked like occasionally for the next 4 MONTHS .. and it was good .. I was happy again.Until I got the atomic bomb that he was dating this other girl … So that really bothered me . at first I didnt care but it eventually did. So yeah I wouldnt talk to him much . Then one night he calls me up and he tries to have phone sex with me. I tell him no cause he has a girlfriend, and I tell him why doesnt he call his girlfriend if he wants it .. and he’s like she isnt the one that got me turned on .. and I was still NO .. and his like thats the way its going to be .. im like no just this is wrong .. you have a girlfriend … After that he didnt call me for 20 days .. but we would still text. then like 5 days ago we got in an arguement and terminated our connection, everything. no more calling, talking, texting… yet right now I regret that I did that cause I still have feelings for him ..

should I call him and try to work things out ?

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you can try and work things out with him but hes probably gonna be real stubborn about it. and think about it … hes willing to call you and ask you to have phone sex knowing and admitting he had a girlfriend, is that the type of guy you want? what happens when you dont turn him on as much and he comes across a girl that can, dont you think hed do the same thing he did to you that he did to her? just be careful. but if you really do care aabout him then nothing I said is gonna stop you. your gonna try and talk to him anyways. nothing anyone on here can say is gonna stop you. its what you want. and I think you already know that… good luck <3

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