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Maturbation or sex?

This is weird, but I would rather use my vibrator to masturbate than have sex with my husband! We have only been married for a 2 years so it shouldnt feel like this already! My husband is hot and turns me on but all I can think about is masturbating, is that weird and is there anyone else that does that?

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Answer #1

it is notrmal, and a lot of people feel the same way and go through the same thing but you should still enjoy sex with your husband you two probably need to spice up your sex life there a whole bunch of games you could try, postions costumes to buy, and toys that you can use while having sex

Answer #2

I’m sure there are other people that feel the same way you do. This is tricky I think. You say your hubby is hot and turns you on, so why do you think it is that you would rather masturbate? Do you like the type of feeling you get (like is the orgasm better)? Do you like just being alone? Have you tried doing some masturbation with your hubby? Sometimes that turns them on. You can guide him or maybe he would like to see how you use your toy on yourself. I would try incorperating him in, just to try something new and maybe you two can get through it together.

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