Should I let him be or? Please someone I really need advice?

So mason liked me Asked me out I said no, because we talked everynight in the summer for hours, then once school hit he wouldn’t talk to me at all. Now he doesn’t like and I kinda like him but I don’t know and he is going after Elisha, this girl drinks and does drugs and I really don’t want him getting into that. But worrided if I bring it up with him he will just sayy I’m jealous, or something.. Like we already stopped talkig again an I’m hating it., but please what should I do? Any advice would truly help?

Answer #1

Tricky situation I must say… For starters, ‘’kinda liking’’ him doesn’t sound right. Your questions insinuates you like him a lot more then you say.

What I think you should do is try to understand why he isn’t talking to you. School usually ends up being very busy and there really isn’t that much time left for anything else. Just to add, you rejected him which must’ve hurt him quite a bit. As for the girl Elisha, as much of a trouble maker she is, if he likes her there isn’t anything you can do. Trying to interfere with the people he likes will only make him like them stronger. By interfere I mean trying to stop it, a conversation about it would work. Unless he’s going to be immature about it and say that you’re jealous. Also, I have this odd feeling that he did that purposely, trying to get the girl Elisha just to see if he can make you jealous. I’m not sure by that but its a possibility.

I don’t quite get why you said no to him. That bit didn’t make much sense to me, you two communicate greatly with each other? Why not at least give it a chance. Right now though, its a bit to late for that. Its best to talk to him about about the other girl. Keep the conversation simple and to the point, try to keep the feelings to a minimal. He might take the queue that you are in fact jealous but tell him that your worried about him. If he does seem to be putting his feeling out then follow suite. Its better like that so that way you both can connect through this mistake. If he does then your open to talk to him about the whole situation other problem of you liking him as well.

If you do get to talk to him again then you can try exerting some feelings towards him. I firmly believe in a 2nd chance and I’m hoping he does too. If not then he can still be your friend, its no the same consistency but its something and it will help you get over him.

hope this helps.

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