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Can someone please help me I really need some advice

Friday me and boyfriend had an argument and he told me to leave him alone so I did today’s our anniversary so I called him at 12 he didn’t answer his phone and then I tried 45 Min’s later he still didn’t answer and then my best friend text me and I text her back saying I needed to talk to her so she called me I told her what was happening and then I get a text from my boyfriend saying “not in the mood to talk prefer to be alone thank” so I text him back saying “I just wanted to say happy anniversary” and then he text me back saying “well thanks same to you” and that was it my best friends telling me to end it but I just can’t I love him too much and I’ve been constantly crying since last night and when I woke up today I just started to cry and as soon as I finish crying I start crying again I really don’t know what to do my heart is breaking I can’t stop crying and his going away to wales on Tuesday for 3 days what am I supposed to do I can’t stand the thought of living my life without him

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Answer #1

I’m not sure what the argument was about but if he wants to be left alone- then just leave him alone! If he is upset he has a right to feel how he feels and to have time to deal with it. If he talks before he is ready it will just make it worse because he will feel like he was not given enough time and space. I understand your upset- but he showed you enough consideration and respect to let you know he doesnt want to talk. Its hard to not talk to him but it will be worth it when he comes back around- feels better and misses you and appreciates you giving him the time! give the guy a break! he wasnt trying to make you cry- he just asked for time- that is not a crime

Answer #2

I would end it. if you really mean a lot to him he wouldve called you to say happy anniversary no matter if he was mad or busy. if he truly loves you he will call you and apologize and he will refuse to end the relationship if he doesnt call or if he doesnt refuse to end it he didnt care at all. sometimes we have to risk ourselves and find out wether we should keep trying or let it go. dont be afraid to do it. maybe youre all desperate and depressed while hes okay having a good time not wanting to worry about this problem. dont cry no more :) in my opinion hes not worth it he should make you happy and he should notice how much you love him.

Answer #3

either give him some space or meet up with him somewhere and explain to him how you feel face to face…if this behavior continues..YES!…END IT

Answer #4

well I would suggest giving him time, especially if thats what he’s asking for…Better to not irritate him. I would also think of it more as a he’s to busy. than he doesn’t want to talk…he will apoligize shortly.

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