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Should I let go or hold on

I have a friend actually he use to be my boyfriend and then we decided to become just best friends. We decided to move to different areas of town. He chose to live with his friends and I chose to live alone. He started to change some. He began doing things that I don’t like. Things like smokin pot and hangin out with the wrong kinda people. He said I became too judgemental since I didn’t condon such behavior. What should I do? He really only speaks to me when nobody is around. When people are around he acts like he don’t know me. Another thing is he watches me when I bring a new guy into my work to visit with me on my breaks and when I walk away he joins the person and pretends to buddy up with them. He acts me if the person I have visiting me is someone I am dating. Is this showin interest in me still or is he just not wanting me to be happy cause he is not. I found out he is dating someone new now and that is great. I miss the friendship but sometimes I feel like he is not the same man I use to know. I deal with this everyday since we do work together about three days a week.. Please let me know your opinion.

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Answer #1

Considering this question was asked two months ago, I’m sure you’ve already sorted it out, but based on what you’ve said here, this is someone that needs to be let go. It seems he wants to have his cake and eat it too, and you’re the cake.

He doesn’t want to be tied to you, but he doesn’t want you having anyone else - that’s not right. You deserve better than that.

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