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SHE HURT ME SO BAD! AND DONT KNOW what TO DO!?!?!

well me and thiz girl fell in love but we neva went out because were scared that if we do than we might get in to a fight and will hate each other..so a coupe of months ago her best friend came to my houze and she started flirtin wit me so I flirted back..we made out and then did it again the next day..when my lover foun out she waz super mad!!! and I had to beg her to not move on…I hurt her very badly and I would neva want to do it again but recently I moved from orlando to miami and when I left she decided to cuddle up, makeout, and sleep wit my best friend while I waz gone..I’ve neva been so hurt and dont know what to do..can some one please GIVE ME ADVICE!!!

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Answer #1

You claim you “love” her, and she “loves” you, but are afraid to go out for fear of fighting , and hurting each other? Sorry, but this is puppy love at its best! Love doesnt keep two people away from each other, and it should NEVER have to worry about hurting the other person. You two are very young, and young minds think this way. Two mature adults would not feel this way if they truly loved one another!! Nothing would keep them apart!

You are so worried about hurting her if you went out, but its ok to hurt her when your not? You went and made out with her best friend, and you say you “love” this other girl…thats not love either. You have a mixed up version of what love is! In a few yrs from now, you will look back at your behavior, and realize it wasnt real love, but infatuation. You have to just move on, and know that you and her just werent meant to be together, since you both hook up with everyone else, but each other…!!!

Find someone you can be in a relationship with, and stay commited to!!

Answer #2

Talk to her, tell her u know u hurt her and she hurt . then ask if u can just please get over that becuase u need her more than anything and u hope she’s willing to forget what happened.

Answer #3

WELL IF I COULD THAN I WOULD BUT ITS NOT THAT EASY..WHEN U LOVE SOMEONE U JUST CANT MOVE ON AS IF THEY WERE NOTHIN…=( (BELEAVE ME IVE TRIED!)

Answer #4

wow. move on.

Answer #5

it sucks to be u dosen’t it.

Answer #6

she was getting back at you she wanted you to know how she felt when you did the same to her.

Answer #7

WELL IF I COULD THAN I WOULD BUT ITS NOT THAT EASY..WHEN U LOVE SOMEONE U JUST CANT MOVE ON AS IF THEY WERE NOTHIN…=( (BELEAVE ME IVE TRIED!)

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