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How do you know it's the right thing, when it hurts so bad?

I keep on chasing this girl even though she always try to push me away. By the way, im a girl too. Obviously, a lesbian. I love her that much and I think she loves me too. But all of a sudden..it all falls apart. We had a fight last week.. Up to now, we dont barely talk. We’re coworkers too. I think she’s jealous with my so called boss. :d mmm I have a crush on her but thats it. I dont love her the way I love my girl. I hope she comes back to me. I really miss her.. :( its been a week since we spend time with each other.

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Fighting is a no go for me. I know people say that fighting helps keep a relationship stable (or so I’ve heard) but that doesn’t make sense to me.

Now back to your problem, she is playing it safe with you by avoiding you. I would too if I knew before hand that you have a thing for your boss. Its important to assess the differences here. Your boss is someone you have a simple crush on – time to change that. If you want things to work with her you pretty much have to exclude any outside influences other than her. That means you can’t have a crush on your boss.

With the argument that you two had, its important that you find a way to apologize to her. Even if its not your fault that you two had a fight anyway. The act of apologizing shows that you care for her feelings and that your willing to mend the wounds from the fight itself. Make sure the apology is actually something worth hearing or else you might as well not apologize at all.

Hope this helps.

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