Scared to Give Head

Ok, so I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we’ve been living together for 2. we used to have a great sex live but we’re kinda in a rut now. So I’ve been thinking about giving him a blow job and this would actually be the first time. When I was in high school I had a boyfriend who pushed my head down on his penis and ever since then it’s been out of the question. I love my boyfriend and I want to do this for him but I am terrified. How do I get over my fear and all the emotion?

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Answer #1

I totally know what your talking about. many guys do that when they are getting extremely excited…however I think its rather rude when this happens… if this happens to you now you shud playfully tell him its hands off for him ..hope this helped

Answer #2

Well,when you go down on him,have him play wiht your hair or rub your back or somehting.Just make sure his hans arnt directly on your head,and if they start making their way there,stop,and move them elsewhere.I had the same eact problem with an ex.Id move his hands form my head to my back or chest.It all worked out.

Answer #3

well it isnt going to be easy to get over your fear but tell him you want to do this for him but you had a past so dont let him push your head down or touch your head. you could start off by kissing it like a peck and work your way to giving him head also. if you dont feel confortable stop but I think by kissing his penis it will loosen you up and help you get over your fear. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

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