Scared of my dad

Okay I have been living with my dad since I was 8 and now I am 16 and well just lately I have been afraid of living here. just tonight has made me even more nervous. he came up from behind me while I was sitting on a chair at the computer and gave me a hug before he went to bed and then when he gave me a hug his hand kinda went on my breast and pulled up and now I am so freaked out and when he is on the computer and he gets off I’ll find stuff on the history bar about father daughter sex stuff and teen porn and I get really scared I mean literally. do you think I am just being paranoid or is there somthing going on and I dont want to tell any one any thing because I just might be jumping to conclusions and I am AFRAID to live here and I highly doubt he would let me move out. what do I do.? I just really need some help please. thanks

Answer #1

Tell someone that you can trust, like a teacher or a doctor. As soon as possible! You can make this change.

Answer #2

well there is obviously something wrong! you have merit in your worries..what I would do is everytime you get off of the comp, make sure that the parental controls are on to the adult content so that he will have to take the time reset them..maybe not a solution fast..but if he always has to take the time to reset those features..it is as if you are silently telling him your uncomfortable.. but be consistant about turning the features off or he wont get it.. hope this helps..

Answer #3

oh yea get you some pepper spray if possible

Answer #4

be super careful! any sign that he makes even the slightest false move you have to get away!

Answer #5

Are those like porn sites you find on the history bar of the computer, if so I would be thinking something is going on, I’m not trying to make matters worse. That’s just my opinion. The hand on your breast thing, I’m not sure about, if he like purposly put it there and lifted it might Be a sign, did he squeeze it even slightly? And do you have large greats cause If they’re small(not to be offensive)it could be an accident.

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Answer #6

if you are finding that father - daughter porn crap on the computer I can only think of one thing… when he is not there, you need to go to a Catholic nun’s home. I ain’t kidding. This way you keep the cops out of it since what he is doing is not really a crime (yet), but you are feeling uncomfortable, and those nuns will not let him get you until this problem is worked out. You have to think what may happen after this is set what is he going to do at home, so you have to think long term. you need to get out of that house asap. get out before something bad happens. Whatever you are going through, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. but the time to act is now.

Answer #7

Go to a friend’s house. If you feel fear then you should know what kind of touch that was. Go away immediately!

Answer #8

You know your dad best. Often people get consumed in their sexual fantasies and they are not thinking about what is best they are not thinking about the consequences or effects. I say remove yourself from the situation before your dad does something that both of you regret for the rest of your lives. Or sit down and talk to him about it and give him a reality check. Dont just ignore it until its too late.

Answer #9

Ditto to the “reality check”…TALK TO HIM NOW… tell him that the little “squeeze” didn’t go unnoticed, and that you’re freaking out. There’s a good chance you’ll snap him out of fantasy land and back into the real world where there are jails, and other life changing events for people who can’t draw the line…He’ll probably deny it, but inside he’ll be terribly embassed and ashamed (and deservedly so)…but that’s the price for crossing a defined line.

There’s a big difference between “paranoid” and “intellegently cautious”…he’s your dad, and you love him…and that’s why you talk first…then if he doesn’t stay on the right side of that line, you’re gone…period, end of discussion…

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Answer #10

We are talking about a 16 yr old talking about SEX with her FATHER! this will not go well..what you DON’T want to do is start up a conversation like this while your alone with him! what if your dad is in that LOVING kinda mood and takes this “in his mind” as an advancement.. because right in the middle of you telling him to STOP, you cave and dont get your point accross. this could be disasterous. Ido agree however action must be taken soon..very soon. but being alone and throwing up the conversation of SEX with a man that you know already has these fantasies is not the right thing to do… just weigh that

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