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Right to be mad?

Okay yesterday was my boyfriend and I’s 8 month. He didn’t talk or answer my calls or call me at all. We had plans to do things. I gave up my friday night with my friends to be with him. He blows me off… he says he when iceskating. I sorta believe him but why would you leave your girlfriend on your 8 month together to go iceskateing.. then when he got home he called zach his friend which I cried too cause I felt so horrible. Zach told him I was pissed.. then he claims to have gotton somthing to eat then fell asleep but was going to call me but he ended up calling me at 4 in the morning… and I was too tired to actually think and now he wont answer my phone calls or anything..

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Answer #1

Dear xxlovehurtsbabexx, Yes, you have the right to be upset…he said he went skating…well it doesn’t matter where he went he had plans with you and broke them on purpose with no regard for you. He did not call to apologize or he did not invite you along either. Is this the first time he has done this? If so then you need to lay it on the line, it is not acceptable behaviour and if he does it again he can expect you not to be around much and you will be making plans with others. If this isn’t the first time then…shame on you!! People treat you the way you let them…Don’t let him make a fool out of you. If this is a common thing with him…it would be time to move on. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

Be mad… He deserves whatever treatment you are giving him. I don’t do anniversaries before the first year, but since it is important to you, and you both made plans, he’s a peice of crap. He didn’t even let you know he changed his plans, and didn’t call you until 3 a.m.??? No way. Screw him. Make plans with him for something, but instead go out with your close girl or guy friends. See if he blows up your phone or gets peeved. If he gets pissed, smile sweetly and say “Oh, you didn’t like that either?” It has more impact if you do it in person. Trust it’ll make you feel better, and if he ends it, you deserved better anyway.

Answer #3

I don’t think you are overreacting. Theres no good excuse for that (unless it was an emergency)… men… ice skating? pfft.

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