Is it right to be mad?

Okay so anyways my girlfriend and I have been together about 2 months and 3 weeks…Weve been friends for over 2 years..and I found out about 3 weeks ago that she gave another guy a handjob about 9 months ago in my room..

And she never told me, until I asked… She never had the courage to tell me, and she said she liked me at that time too, so I basically feel disrespected, and that her affection that she apparently felt meant nothing…

I truly care for her, and she cares for me…But I just dont know if I can forgive something like that…it hurts 2 know… and I feel highly disrespected… But on the other hand she did that before she was dating me, and its been a long time, and shes apologized a few times… What do I do? …Do I forgive her for that? or take another action?

Answer #1

let her know that this really bothers you, but I think you shouldn’t throw in the towel on the relationship just yet. Talk about it, see if her apologies seem really sincere.

Answer #2

Like yeah you have a right to be upset. But it was 9 months ago. But don’t trhow the relationship away. Work on it.

Answer #3

you should forgive her. maybe you changed since then, and she liked the new you.

Answer #4

Wait who did she do it with and in your room??

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