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I dont wanna leave the love of my life behind

Okay so I really dont know what to do.

So from I was at the end of fifth grade I lived in west palm beach. Now, once I hit sixth grade I moved to lake city. That a big difference by the way because I came from the big city and lake city isnt even on a main map. I’ve made friends here but my heart is in west palm. I go to an okay life and my school isnt the worst but its tiny I’m its 635 kids and it’s 6th-12th. Helllooo! Okay but anyways I get good grades, im a cheerleader ya know sounds great right. I mean I got a best friend and one amazing boyfriend I’ve been daten for almost one year (monday makes a year). And well, money is not doing goo and I might be moving to west palm. Im not to worried about cheerleading school or friends but my boyfriend and I are really close. He has lived with me for 6 months. Never been better but my parents said if we moved my nana (who we’d move in with when we moved) wouldnt let him stay. I hate long distance relationship! What can I do I dont want to ruin every we have accomplished with him. But the odd thing is the only thing stopping us from moving now is him because everyone knows how devistaded I would be. Everyone wants to move back even me but I dont wanna leave the love of my life behind. I’m 16 and he is 17 if that helps.

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Pro’s and con’s it. Really I can’t think of one upside in you staying other than the boy, considering you said that your heart in still in the other place. So, the only question you really need to ask your self is, is he worth it? And that cover’s everything. And I don’t mean just now, I mean will he be worth it in the future as well, meaning if you two beak up (know you don’t wanna think about that but you have to consider these things. If that happens will leaving still be an option?).

Something else to consider, if hes 17 and hes planning on going to university or collage then that will be happening pretty soon, and long distance is gonna happen anyways.

Don’t drive yourself crazy over it, talk to him about it to. Ask how he feels about everything and figure out his future plans. What would happen if you went (would it be an automatic break up?) Verses if you stay (Meaning is he actually serious about you, can he see ya’ll actually going somewhere?) Take his feelings into consideration but in the end you have to figure out where YOU will be happiest.

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