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Dont wanna leave the love of my life behind

Okay so I really dont know what to do.

So from I was at the end of fifth grade I lived in west palm beach. Now, once I hit sixth grade I moved to lake city. That a big difference by the way because I came from the big city and lake city isnt even on a main map. I’ve made friends here but my heart is in west palm. I go to an okay life and my school isnt the worst but its tiny I’m its 635 kids and it’s 6th-12th. Helllooo! Okay but anyways I get good grades, im a cheerleader ya know sounds great right. I mean I got a best friend and one amazing boyfriend I’ve been daten for almost one year (monday makes a year). And well, money is not doing goo and I might be moving to west palm. Im not to worried about cheerleading school or friends but my boyfriend and I are really close. He has lived with me for 6 months. Never been better but my parents said if we moved my nana (who we’d move in with when we moved) wouldnt let him stay. I hate long distance relationship! What can I do I dont want to ruin every we have accomplished with him. But the odd thing is the only thing stopping us from moving now is him because everyone knows how devistaded I would be. Everyone wants to move back even me but I dont wanna leave the love of my life behind. I’m 16 and he is 17 if that helps.

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Answer #1

I think you have de-dramatize the situation. Look at it this way, instead of being stuck in a town you don’t really like, you’d finally move back to where you will truly be happy. The only “problem” as you stated is the boyfriend so why not plan for him to move to Palm beach when he turns 18 and finishes school? He could study there and even get work. And maybe by that time, you will have convinced nana about your relationship and you could even live together again. You’ve got to see things in the long run, with a bigger perspective. Just because you’re moving away doesn’t mean you cant make it work out. There will always be moments in your life where you will have to be sperated or one will have to sacrifice something to be together. Once he understands how happy you will be there and how many opportunities are there for him, then Im sure he will agree to come join you. See it as a temporary distancing for an even better reunion.

Answer #2

so your in 6th grade and your 17? hahahha hmmm mmk but also you said you had a dick and you are asking a question on how to suck it so your like a boy and a girl lol your not even real.

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