Raped

talk to a mentor oe someone and relax

I agree with what everyone iz saying, talk to someone maybe a mentor or counsilor, it would really help.

send the dumb aS5hole to jail or stab him and make him suffer he deserves to die

the best idea I can give ya is to talk to someone about this, it could always make you feel better if you talk to someone about it. maybe someone who can give you good advice that could help you with what your going through.

well I’ve never actually been in that kind of situation but I think you should maybe do what everyones telling you to do. talk to someone, and if you cant than tell your boyfriend you want to try to go to the next step but a little more cautiously and slowly if he asks why and you still dont want to tell anyone than just say its personal. and if he has a problem with that (which he shouldnt) than maybe hes just trying to get laid or something and hes not good enough for you but I dont think that would happen but still. good luck with your relationship and I hope I helped some.

-lonely4alwayz-

well, try to think about the posotive side: think about happy things,like your hobbies try not to think bout’ it so much. I can kinda relate 2 u, because when I was about 5 or 6 years old, I was molested by my own cousin.I still think about it every so often and am 16 years old now, it took me a while 2 get over it, though

you need to tell someone like a friend, family member, counsellor, cop, teacher, doctor, ect because getting your feelings off your chest can help a lot it would also be good to tell the police about this and tell them who raped you 3 years is pretty late to report it, but at least you can do soemthing and perhaps stop him from doing it again telling them when it first happened would have had a better outcome though it would also be good to talk to your mum about this and what happened and know that not all men are like that there are a few a*sholes out there but try not to let them spoil it for the good guys because not every guy is bad one day youll find a guy who respects you and you feelings and really loves you it doesnt always happen right away though and try to report mums boyfreind because it will help a lot also realise that none of what happened was your fault it was his