What can I do to not get raped or am I over reacting?

u need to tell some one and let your feelings out it is hard for you to say but it will help if you dont eant to tell the cops tell some one in your fam. or your friend it will realy help you over come it

No you are not over reacting if your dad lets him come there give him my number so maybe I can talk him out of it how old are you and him? How old were you when he raped u? I grw up with my step dad feelin me up while I was sleeping. I lived in fear from the time ~ was 12 untill I moved out at 16. thats how you will be

so what! he has no right to be “nice”

You need to speak up. Call the cops if necessary. He’s an adult. Your dad does not need to be a good uncle. A grown adult can take care of himself.

If you need someone to talk to, try this site, they have an online chat www.rainn.org

Well, you’ll have to get over that if you actually want to be safe. You should consider therapy, too. Talking about it with someone you don’t know that can help you sort through things can really help.

Well, whatever you do, don’t live with him. People that do that tend to have a habit of repeat offenses. If whomever you’re living with insists on him living there, and won’t listen to you [Make sure you do make your point that you don’t want them there], then get the law involved. You’re not helpless, there are options. :-)

sleep with a knife under your pillow in case he trys to rape you again… but first, tell your parents that he raped you. if that doesnt work, tell the police.

I want to get help but my dad. . . . . my family would like hate me, sometimes things are better unsaid? =( I want to be helped but im just in this steel cage with a sign that says shut up. . .

Thats the point, im too ashamed to say anything and embarrassed. . . if anything my dad would think I lead them on since he already thinks im a wh*re even tho im a virgin(well technically). . . . . and a good girl =/

I’ve been raped more then once as well. . . . and its because hes a long lost cousin and he lives so far away from the family so yea. . . my dad is trying to be a nice uncle. . since his dad is in jail

call the police

I was 7 until I was 12. . . im 15 and he’s 23. . .

why the hell would he be living with you, my sister got raped more than once get away call the cops.

no no tell your mom or dad and tell if that doesn’t work call the coppers and tell them everything don’t be ashamed or embarrassed it’s better to let it out wit no then to have to go on years in pain and misery because you didn’t say anything get help and stay away from him