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problems with my mom right now we are not getting along

So I’m having a lot of problems with my mom right now we are not getting along at all!! I’ve been talking with my older sister about letting me stay with her for a school year, but she lives in a different state…

Here I have a lot of friends and I’m in love with this guy, who says he loves me back, but I know that I’m not the only girl that he loves, and on the other hand my mom wants me to stay away from him…

I need some help with weather I should stay here with my mom who makes me feel hated, my friends, and the guy who I love, but sometimes hurts me or go live with my sister for a year and hopefully things will get better???

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Answer #1

Parents generally have a good reason for wanting you to stay away from someone. Right now you may think you know a lot about everything and your mom is acting too strict. Unfortunately, you’re a minor and as long as that’s the case your mom has to try her best to make decisions that will eventually serve you best interest. Sometimes, it goes against what you want.

Kids all have problems with their parents sometimes. This happens no matter how old you get.

We all think that the grass is greener on the other side, but the truth is moving in with your sister will not make things any better. If you do that, not only will it hurt you mom’s feelings immensely, but it will also leave the original problem and probably make it worse. Later on in life, you won’t be able to “fix” the situation by moving away. Also, again, you’re a minor. Ultimately you’d have to get your mom’s permission to move in with your sister because your sister isn’t your legal guardian. The chances of that happening are going to be slim.

You need to talk it out with your mom. She’s trying to teach you to grow up and be a responsible adult in the future, so why get a step ahead and handle the situation rationally and surprise her by talking about what’s going on.

Parents absolutely love when their kids include them in their thoughts.

Answer #2

Running away has never solved everything.

At your age, it’s quite normal for mothers and daughter to have differing points of view and many don’t get along - it’s all part of growing and becoming an independent person.

Your mother may seem overbearing and mean, but she surely wants what’s best for you. Perhaps try talking to her in a rational manner instead of fighting her every step of the way.

Answer #3

talk to your mom,try to solve the problem…each and every situation can handle with love but you are free to do what ever you want…u are a free child of god…no body can ristrict your freedom

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