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How pathetic is this??

I never ever feel pretty. So I have to go to my year old brother and ask him if I look pretty. Since his anwser is uslly yes it makes feel better but when he says no I run down to my room take a pic and send it to a few guys so they can tell me how I look..

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Answer #1

I don’t feel pretty either (cuz I’m not :D) so it’s all good. But you should have more self confidence! I bet you’re reeeeeeaaaaallllly pretty XD

Answer #2

Eh, I don’t think it’s pathetic. I just think you have low self esteem, no biggie a lot of people do. You’ll just have to learn how to embrace yourself someday, but for now if other people telling you you’re beautiful will help out. You’re beautiful. We don’t need a picture to see that. Everyone is in their own way.

Answer #3

when you have to send pics to guys and ask them if you look pretty, yes. to be ohnest its getting a bit pathetic. you need to improove your self esteem. you should NOT go looking for attention like that because its likley that in the future, youll go out with any old guy who shows you that attention, and wont feel like you have a choice out of guys because you dont feel good enough for them. stop sending pics to people, stop asking them. you look pretty no matter what you look like, everyone is unique, there are people that find you ugly and people who find you pretty, thats just how the world works. you cant please everyone. but you need to spend a lot more time trying to please yourself…mybe get a new haircut to help your self esteem, or try a different style or look

Answer #4

Why oh why…when you’re feeling this down on yourself, would you put yourself out there trying to fish for compliments from guys who can see what you’re doing. Just to be onery, they might say, “no man, you’re ugly”…. even if they don’t really think it.

So yes, it is pathetic, that you’d risk what self-esteem you DO have on people who really don’t care if they hurt you or not??? If you can’t like yourself a little, at least protect yourself.

Answer #5

Never ask people if your pretty. Give your self confidence a good boost, maybe change your wardrobe (tastefully) or maybe like jazlovestoskate said, try a new haircut. You seem to criticize yourself too much, and you may think you are not pretty, but other people may think you are very pretty. Remember, some of the most beautiful women in the world don’t think much of themselves.

Answer #6

AWWWWWWW cheer up hun I bet your just the prettyist thing. You just can’t see it but other people can!!!! :)