We can't find the internet
Attempting to reconnect
Something went wrong!
Hang in there while we get back on track
How can I deal with my parents always fighting?
my parents are fighting and fighting all night long every night their fighting about how they never have time together and that they are drifting apart i want to do something to help it but i cant even though their not saying it they are forcing me to take sides if i want to read with my dad upstairs and my mom is downstairs watching tv i have to read for 5 min with my dad then tell him something like .. hold on i just heard my name i am back i can’t take this i want to ignore it but i can’t it’s like it is my falt i am scared and just want to do something with either of them or both of them without the other one getting angry at me it is sooo hard
have any advice???
Know this: It is not your fault - they do need to know how you feel - I would consider a note to each: I’m scared because I can sense the tension between the two of you - it seems as if I’m being sometimes forced to take sides - I try hard to please both of you but it seems like you end up being angry with me - I hope the fighting can stop and we be a family again, Love…
I hope this helps !!
Your parents need to focus on the positive things in their relationship and not dwell on the negative things since that just brings more negative thoughts and feelings. If they think about things they are greatful for more such as having a home to live in, having good health, having their own family, having food on the table, having eachother, even though right now they are upset inside because they want to be together more and on and on, they will see that things will all work out one way or another if they just stay focused more on the positive things in their life and visualize how things would be if they did have all the time they are wanting together. If it’s because they work hours which limits them being together as much, maybe it would be good for them to have thoughts and feelings of if they worked hours which would allow them to be together more and if they focus on that strongly enough the things they are wanting will somehow come about for them. Maybe one of them would be offered a new job or have something really good come about that will completely change the issue they are having now. I would highly recommend that you and your parents watch the movie called “The Secret”. You should be able to find links online that will allow you to watch the first 20 minutes of the movie which is some really good information. I had bought the dvd of it and watched it a few times and was quite impressed with what you learn from watching it. I really think it will help. Also, with them fighting all night long a lot, that’s time that they are actually together. They should appreciate that time more together instead of fighting with eachother. I feel sorry for you having to listen to them argue, it’s not fair to you. I hope everything gets better soon and I hope my advice helps.
Hmm, Why dont you just tell them how this is effecting you. Once parents know what’s going on, they will pry fight alot less. Them, to get the the point where that say that they dont have much time for one another, suggest a weekend get away from the two, or tell them to go to dinner. Everything will work out, trust me.
-
How can I not fight with my parents? - 3 Answers
ok well me and my parents always fight for real like I say mean stuff and I dont mean it please help what can I do to not fig...
-
How do I stop fighting everyday almost with my parents? - 4 Answers
Everyday my mom and sister always want to know every little thing about my day. It drives me insane! I dont want them knowing...
-
My parents are fighting again, mom lost her job... They are fighting because my dad doesn't want to celebrate xmas. - 1 Answers
My mom lost her job, and dad never celebrated xmas as a child, but it is tradition for the other 4 of us. He is yelling and s...
-
Parents fighting all the time help!!! - 5 Answers
My parents dont stop fighting. They are either fighting or not speaking.I as a person , am romantic. For me there is always ...
-
How do I deal with my parents' complicated divorce? - 1 Answers
my parents are getting a divorce and im always on my mom's side of things but now my dad is starting to make a lot of sense t...
-
Parents Fighting - 1 Answers
My parents fight all the time it hurts me when my parents say stuff like are kids are messed up because of u... umm I don't k...
-
Why do parents always bring up their child's past mistakes? - 7 Answers
Everytime as a family we go out to eat or just a typical dinner. They always bring up all the bad things i've done. And we al...
-
How to deal with a spoiled brat always coming over? - 3 Answers
how do I deal with a very big spoiled brat that won't stop coming over your house even when you tell your mom she is a brat
-
How to deal with parents who are different from me? - 3 Answers
I grew up entirely in the States, and now I just realized that I can't deal with my parents having values & concepts that are...
-
My parents act like children and i've already lost a great deal of my childhood because of them - 1 Answers
I'm 16 years of age. My parents agrue alot, several times the cops have been involve and a social worker. What happens is the...
Parents & Family
Parenting, Marriage, Childcare
Answers for Parents
Parenting, Family, Education
Mummy Matters: Parenting and ...
Parenting, Lifestyle
Tango Family
Parenting, Family, Health
Parentinglogy
Parenting, Child Development, Family Health