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My parents hate me, I dont want synmpathy I want an answer or sumone to tel me if ther experience the same ? Im a young teenager and don’t get on with my mom - ther was a camping trip orangised and I dont want to go - and now she hate sme over it. I’ve bin crying in my room for over three hours now, and don’t ever want to tlk to her agen. Shes neva bin proud of me and I cnt think of one times recently I’ve made her laugh. Only three days ago was my brithday and it was crap - we even argued then - advice ?

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Answer #1

I agree with the above, but also think about how much you hurt your moms feelings by telling her that you didn’t want to go camping with her. Parents get stressed and they take it out on us but that doesn’t mean they hate us. they are just as confused as we are. Oh and don’t worry it took me 2 years to get my mom to laugh for me one time after she was sick and guess what she laughed at … Over the hedge when I told her this line “ohhh you can help me find my NUTS!” haha good times! don’t worry though we go through our ups adn our down in our teen years, and parents just forget how it was.

Birthdays can always suck my mom forgot mine once and I ended up shoveling sh*t for her garden. oh and don’t worry moms and daughters fight the most, but then when they agree on something to fight for they make the most amazing team! Appreciate what you have in life! one day we will regret things we did and said to our parents and will miss them like crazy so till then love them, even thought they are mean and seem like they hate u!

I hope I was of some help :D

Answer #2

~It’s not necessarily about teenagers being that way because of hormones.~

You’re right - it’s often a generalization, but you have to admit that a lot of the time, it’s true.

Parents were teens once too, and they went through all the difficulties teens these days are going through…it’s just the way we grow up. The problem is that sometimes parents forget what it’s like to be a teen.

Try to explain to your parents that you just need some time to be by yourself…that you are going through changes and that you’re not always in the best of moods.

By taking a mature approach like that and showing them that you’re willing to accept your own limitations, they may just back off a little and give you some space.

Answer #3

People need to understand exactly why teenagers are always so unhappy with their parents.

Parents need to let their teenagers be sometimes, and stop starting fights.

It’s not necessarily about teenagers being that way “because of hormones”.

Answer #4

I iwhs I had sumone to tlk to - how sad this is my last resort (Y)

Answer #5

Wow my life sucks to. My parents hate me . I think you should talk to somone at least. (Not your parents)

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