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What if I just want to see if she cares?

hi well my relationship has not been going good the last few weeks and i dont think my girlfriend cares about me anymore and the only thing that i keep thinking is i wish like for some stupid reason id get in a car crash or something or just get hurt like not too bad just like where im in the hospital just to see if she would acctually care like would she come visit me u know and i know its stupid but like i was driving home from work and i was just thinking like wat if i drove this car into a tree wat would happen and im not saying i want to die i just want to see maybe that will acctually show me if she cares or not. err i just dont know wat to do anymore life sucks at this point

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Answer #1

You definitely need to get with her and talk about what her problem is. Maybe it’s something you can work out or maybe she’s just not interested anymore, or she just might be getting bored and you need to do something to get her interested again. The best bet though is to sit her down someplace where there are no interruptions and speak to her truthfully and honestly and she will respond the same way. Do not accuse her of anything, just see what’s on her mind. Honesty is very important in any relationship. If she doesn’t care anymore, or can’t be honest with you, then move on.

You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

Answer #2

angelbabe415 is right. Ask her. But from the ‘tone’ of your post, you are experiencing a break-up aftermath. So yes, it is perfectly normal to feel sad. Want to cry? Good, do it, vent it out. But DO NOT GO HURTING YOURSELF JUST TO GET HER ATTENTION. She might not know or she might not even care. Stop daydreaming. Be proud of yourself and go do some more useful activities like sports or hobbies. Play some video games. Watch a movie. Watch some TV. Call friends. Get yourself busy for the moment. If she cares for you, she WILL find you. So relax. There is more to life than just her. Practice hard your detachments (and this is a good time to practice)

Answer #3

i want you to read this very carefully:

YOU ARE WORTH MUCH MORE THAN THAT, JUST THINK ABOUT HOW MANY PEOPLE YOU WOULD HURT BESIDES YOUR SELF. YOU BEING IN THE HOSPITAL WILL NOT MAKE HER CARE ANYMORE FOR YOU THAN SHE DOES NOW.

If you are not sure just ask her if she still cares for you. The worst thing she can say is that she doesnt care at all, but i am sure that if that were true, she would not be with you still.

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