I'm so scared I'm pregnant

before you have sex you really do need to know all the facts, and risks involved your also responsible for contraception, not just the guy hopefully youll think about that the next time but for now youve made a mistake, and need to deal with the consequesnce responsibly dont say that youll make a bad mother, if youve never given it a shot!…you never know you have a few options though have the kid dont have it/abortion have it and put it up for adoption have it and give it to a freind or soemone who you know wants a baby and cant have one themself have it, let you mum/parents/close family/freinds take care of it for you untill your ready to …lots of options but the two main ones are…have it or not and you need to have a good hard…long think about which one your going to choose because only you can make this decision you can raise a kid on your own as well, you dont always need a partner but your still going to need to tell the guy however, dont do what he thinks you should do with it, its your choice youer mum is going to be mad obviously …your 14…and pregnant shes your mother…your her child im sure she cares about your health and wellbeing, and will be angry you were having sex… but she is going to help you get through this and depending on her thoughts/religiouse bveleifs, ect, shell suggest you also either keep it or not and if you do decide to keep it, shell most likeley help you a lot and help you get started and help buy all the supplies that youll need when you tell her, make sures shes alone and not busy…and say you have something important to tell her…but make her promise not to get too mad… its okay to be angry but tell her your really confused and dont know what to do now, ect…how you feel…and shell help you hope this helped you