What if I'm scared to death that I'm pregnant?

Ok deary, I happen to have a little experience in this area. My best friend was 14 when she gave birth to a beautiful little girl who I’m proud to say is my god daughter. Her parents didn’t take the news in stride as no parent wants to hear that thier little girl is having sex before she is out of the house. But like all parents they love her and supported her through it. Don’t think your life is over because you make your life what it is. So make the best of it. Go to planned parenthood and they will explain the process of pregnancy and childbirth and they will do a pregnancy test with you…make sure your partner goes with you. If you are pregnant they will help you through it if not they will teach you how to be more cautious. Don’t be affraid to confide in your parents…even if they are gruff they love you very much and want to be there for you. They may be dissappointed like any parent would be…because we all hope that our children will be smarter than we are and make far better decisions based on what we teach them. Good luck and keep your chin up Momma Bear

if you have a plan parenthood around, they give you tons of free clothes, diapers, baby furniture and other stuff that you may need. They also give you free pregnancy tests. Get tested and if it’s positive then tell your mother and father and boyfriend at the same time. don’t be ashamed, being pregnant is the gift of life. i got pregnant when i was 13 and the father was 15. Now im 16 and he’s almost 18 and it’s hard to keep a child but would you rather abort? First find out how far along you are. If you are about 5 months and down, you can abort, but it gets you worse emotionally. If you go through you may have complications. I had my daughter 2 and a 1/2 months early b/c i am so small and my body couldnt hold her any longer. as for the boyfriend, i wouldn’t be sure if he would stick around. #1 how old is he #2 does he work #3 do you both plan on staying togther—anyway the only problems i have is that im 16 and don’t feel like a teenager at all. i don’t really fit in and i hate that BUT when everyone’s having kids later on, ill be in the bars lol. seriousely talk to your parents. they will be shocked but if they love you, they will get you through this. if you decide to keep the baby. i would suggest finding a WIC near you for free fruits, veggies, juices, cereal, milk etc.. they give the checks for you and your baby for free for stuff like that. also find like a thrift store like the salvation army and buy cheap baby stuff that you need. in the first 3 months, you may puke a lot, the 2nd trimester, you may be happy and the last trimester, you cant wait for it to arrive!! you glow and your skin actually gets enhanced and everyone loves t see a pregnant mom. once you find out you are, get scheduled for a gynacoligical exam and at about 3-5 months, you can find out the sex of the baby!! talk to me if ya need anyting else.

in august of 2006, my sister got pregnant. she had a miscarraige but got pregnant again before she turned 18. my mom freaked both times but she is 6 1/2 months pregnant now and shes having a boy. both her and her 25 yr old boyfriend are living in my house with my mom and my little13 yr old sis (im 15). He just got a job a few weeks ago at an industrial park and it seems as if they will live with us forever. Take a pregnancy test. Odds are, you can get one delivered to you by rush delivery from a website, you can get a close friend aunt someone close who won’t judge you or freakout about this, to take you to Planned Parenthood or Wal Mart to get a test. My sister and her boyfriend bought one and took the test in McDonalds the first time (haha). H**L, make your partner go with you to get the test. And when you find out the results, make the best of being a mom or try to use protection, caution, and birth control next time. LET this scare you if you aren’t pregnant so mabe you be a little more careful next time. Good Luck!

Definitely don’t hit yourself in the stomach. That’s just a silly way to harm yourself.

So you have not had your period in about four and a half weeks? Honestly, that isn’t really a big deal. Many women do not get their period every 28 days like clockwork. There are also many things besides pregnancy that can interfere with your period. Stress is a big one that can make your period late! So never assume you are pregnant just because your period is a little late. The only way to know if you are pregnant is to take a pregnancy test.

Keep in mind that if you are ready for intercourse, then you are ready to use protection and ready to handle a possible pregnancy. Birth control is not 100% effective. That means if you are having intercourse, you can decrease your chances of getting pregnant, but you can’t eliminate them. So it may sound harsh, but if you’re not ready to handle this stuff, you’re not ready to have intercourse.

If you know anyone who can drive, then look up Planned Parenthood. They would be able to give you a pregnancy test and an abortion if you want one. They would also be able to give you birth control when you are ready to start having intercourse again.

girl I feel you. you might not be getiing your period because you are thinking a lot . calm down your nerves. take a shower and relax your mind. this will relax your body nerves. do you spott. do you have any sighns. take a pregnancy test. gud luk

Well I think you should not hit yourself in the stomach its only going to make things worse… what you should do is take a pregnancy test. You will get your results in no time