Is it normal if I dream about my ex for a couple nights after we break up?

its just so hard i love him and..hes comeing over tonight..is tht bad? i keep on telling my self wer going to get back togeather but a lil voice in my head says were not :(

I understand. i was like that too with my daughters father. After he hurt me so bad i find it almost impossible to fall in love now. And we have been seperated for 4 years. My daughter is 4 tomorrow. Its ok if he comes over.. Just try not to let him string you along. Be strong and independent. Show him that you will be happy either way. Cuz your young and you have a lot more time to fall in love and get heart broken. Be glad you have your youth and no children yet. Its harder for me to fall in love. But your still at that age and have yet to be broken. I have been through hell with relationships. I have come to realize the only person that will make me happy is me. I feel much better now that i have hardened my heart. I dont expect, dont get my hopes up for them to just come crashing down like always lol. Maybe its just me though. I hope you hold on to that young lovey dovey feeling for good cuz its nice. ..

Yep that is fine. If he was an ashole you can call him and use one more time.

thank u this helped, i guess ill show him tht it doesnt matter if he leaves or stays ik he loves me bc he said hed stop txting me but yesterday he was still txtin me and we had a really good convo and ik if he didnt still care he wouldnt be comeing over so i guess ill see how things go,

Thats good. Just go with the flow. Not a big deal. You are beautiful and deserve the best. If he cant give u the best then there is no point in trying cuz he will fail miserably and u will still be the best he will never have

thats means that u miss him but why break up wen u can stay together an fix it

Of course it’s normal. You had feelings for this guy and now that it’s ended for whatever reason he is going to be on your mind more often then when things were good because you’re upset. That’s why you keep dreaming about him, when you begin to get better you will dream of him less.

Yes, it’s totally normal. The same kind of thing happened to me. I know right now it’s really frustrating and almost makes you hurt worse, but in time it will get better.

Yes it’s normal. . You get: .

1. Heartaches - The feeling of dampness in your chest .
2. Dreams - Random dreams about them .
3. Random thoughts - It’s like you are laughing because something funny happened and then suddenly his thoughts pop up into your mind from no where and your good mood totally drains. .
4. Lack of Hunger - It often kills hunger, you might not feel like eating anything .
5. Sleeplessness - Often, you just lay on your bed thinking about them, unable to shake their thoughts off your head. It messes up with sleep big time .
6. Headaches .
7. Depression and stress .
8. Random emotional swings .
9. Feelings of being choked and the feeling as though something knocked your breath away . All of these feelings are normal while you face a breakup. It’s your body’s way of reacting to the sudden change and emotional shift. . I know exactly how you feel. It’s painful. Best of luck, I hope you are able to heal soon :)

psh yess. i know its not dreaming but i liked this girl for about 2 years and i think about her a lot and we havent really talk for about 3 or 4 months

That’s very natural. Dreams are closely linked to memory and emotion, so I’m assuming you still have all those memories and feelings for your ex-boyfriend. It’s not really something you can control, so I would just wait it out. Give yourself time to move on. I know it must be really hard right now since you guys have broken up so recently, but things will get better.

what if you have felt these over someone you never “actualy” dated but they would kinda of lead you on but then say they didnt know how they felt.because i liked someone for about 2 years and i sometimes feel these…

Yes, it’s very normal. When my ex broke up with me I had a dream that he was holding my hand one last time…. Don’t worry tho, you’ll move on!

Yes, it’s very normal. When my ex broke up with me I had a dream that he was holding my hand one last time…. Don’t worry tho, you’ll move on!

I still have nightmares about my loser ex until this day. It’s been like 2 years.

Oh yeah, that’s normal. I mean, only a couple nights after you guys break up, you’re probably still not completely over them yet. I mean, when my ex dumped me on January 8th, 2011 at 8:54 pm, it tore me up and I wasn’t over him…until quite recently…

That is perfectly normal. But dont let it trick you.Depending on the situation, If he did you wrong, dont let your dreams trick you into wanting him back. It will take a while to get over him, but thats normal.

Look into yourself and see how you feel. Dreams are related to what has happened to you lately, and can help your brain work out what it needs to.

I still hav dreams of my puppy love of almost 30 years ago… Especially when im feeling hurt with the man im in love with now…