No Sex! You're joking right?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years, and living together for 2 1/2. At first we had sex fairly frequently- maybe 2-3 times a week. This past 15 months or so, our sex life has been pretty pitiful. We had sex a WHOPPING 3 TIMES IN 2006… I want it more, a lot more than that, but he is showing no interest in me, in that way– even though he admits to being completely aware of my frustration. And we are still very close- best friends. Now he says he is going through a depression- which I am completely understanding of, and he is on mild antidepressants. Also, I have moved out of our apartment, and he is going to live with his parents for the summer to “find himself.” He says he doesn’t want to break up, but seriously! Am I being a fool? Should I give him more time? More space? WHAT!?! Please help!

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Answer #1

Okay, wow, sounds like you’ve had some situations. Let him do what he’d like and go live with his parents. He’ll most likely realize that he can’t be without you if you’ve been together for three years. Especially from the sounds of how close you are! =].. Just give it time..it’ll all fall in place Goodluck!<3

Answer #2

Hi: The meds for depression can affect your labito. Only Wellbutrin, to my knowledge, and experiance advertises “no sexual side affects” I have been on it now for over two years and have found my desire to have decreased. It takes understanding and patiince on both parts to keep sexually active. The time away this summer can be of great benefit for both of you. He will not be under the emotional pressure to perform sexually and you will be away from the lustful temptations. You may find releaf in masturbation and he will find himself emtionally while being away. Hope it works out for you both. Good Luck Gino

Answer #3

Find somebody with who you can make good sex, and let open the question what will happen to your boyfriend. Maybe you will continue your common sexless life, while you will have partner(s) for sex, maybe he will be able to make sex again, or you will separate…let this questions for the future, and make sex with somebody in the present…

Answer #4

wow. i would get a karma sutra book and see where the wind takes youu :)

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