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My siblings, how to get along

Okay so I have 8 older brothers…yes I am an only girl. They all like beet me up (well not bad) and they go threw my phone and then when it comes to boys they act like they have done something wrong. It’s just not fair. its like there out there to make me upset or somthing? and then girls try to get to know me for my brothers, and I have no one to talk to about “girl stuff” my dad is drivorsed and has a new young girlfreind…yay. and I tell like my dad that they like beet me up I know its just sibling stuff but they do it when THEY know that I am in a bad mood or soemting, and he just tells them to “stay away”. Could someone please give me advice on how to get along with them? or get them to back off about my live life, so its liek they canbeet me up but if a guy touches me they flip? I am so confused would somone like to help me out? and guys, inscnce your guys … how do I get threw to my brothers without them just blowing it off thanks zo

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Answer #1

Thank you all for the adivcee!! My mom got divorced from my dad and he got custody of all of us, they are all my brothers. Some of them we don’t have them same mom but they treat me and I act like they are my “real” brothers. I mean my dad knows they bother me and he yells at them but its so annoying they do it just so I get upset, and I mean they don’t literaly hurt me cause I dont think they’d ever do that but when I am in a REALLY bad mood they’ll like pick me up and throw me agasint the couch, they’re so annoying and they invade my privacy way to much. I am 15 not 3. when me and my boyfriend where making out one of them saw us and “taught him a lesson” it’s not fair to me. I love them but there older and so annoying. and when my dad goes on buisness ad his wife goes with him, inscnce there IS 8 OF THEM ! and the oldest one is over 18 he trusts them to watch me but I just need lots of advice what to do, I mean it’s not like there is one there is 8. how do I get threw to them? do boys gennerally act like this?

Answer #2

that’s brothers for you lol , the next time they beat you up , beat them up ! lol , I’m just kidding , why don’t you try tellin them how you feel when they treat you like that , it mat work , good luck

Answer #3

Where’s your Mom? Are all these brothers your full brothers or are they from other wives of your Dad? Why doesn’t your Dad do something? There, definitely, needs to be someone to protect you. Maybe he doesn’t understand how much this is bothering you. Is there some way that you can stress it to him so maybe he will do something about it.

I don’t think it’s you that needs to get along with them. They need to just stop beating on you. Do you go to school? Maybe you could talk to a teacher or a counselor. These boys should not be allowed to even touch you.

When they are at a young age (and I’m assuming there are some reaching puberty or close), they could do more than beat you up. That’s what I am concerned about. There’s got to be an adult that you can speak with.

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