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How do I get my fiance and my parents to get along after my mother destroyed our anniversary and engagement?

How do i get my fiance and my parents to get along after my mother destroyed our anniversary and our engagement? My fiance is willing to be civil but my parents wont have him at all. They’ve banned him from being on their property and he hasn’t done anything but propose. Its been almost a year since we got married and i moved out and they STILL are giving us the cold shoulder. we haven’t done anything wrong. They tried to stop the wedding by refusing to pay for it, forbid my sister from talking to me and have shunned the parts of the family that did show up to the wedding and gave my husband and i their blessings. Its gotten to the point where we went over to introduce them to our newborn (I got pregnant after we were married, no wedlock) and they refused to let him in the house. obviously we all left after that and so they’ve given up seeing their grandchild because of their hatred for him. I don’t know what to do, I want them to be a part of my son’s life but at the same time i don’t want their negativity affecting him and my marriage.

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Answer #1

At that point I don’t think that there’s much you can do, I know that’s probably not what you wanted to hear but really, you don’t want your son to be affected by that at all, so it’s probably better to stay away. When they’re ready to have you back (or IF), they’ll let you know.

Answer #2

just my opinion but ur not in a relationship like that with ur parents, if u want to b withb ur fiance thats ur business not theres’ u have to spend the rest of ur life with him, they dont. if u love him tell him they have to deal with ur decision

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