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my parents wont let me date him

so I like boy and he likes me to we strted talking on the phone one day and he asked me if I wanted to see a movie with him on friday which is today and I said ya and I told my mom and shes like ok well I gotta meet him first and im like ya ok and im like well hes black and shes oh no thts not right you cant go its not right you werent brought up that way. and I’ve been fightign with her about it.and me and this guy have been talking everyday on the phone for hours and we really like eachother and he aske me out and I said ya well my mom doesnt ko that and I know she wont let me date a black guy and it upsets me I keep crying because I know that this guy is perfect for me and hes amazing and treats me better than anyother guy has I wann b wit him. my mom is soo racist and im not I hate that she is…I wanna be with him more than anything. how do I convince her to let me date him and b with him what do I do I need to be with him and I dont wanna keep he and I a secret

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Answer #1

okaaay so I have this boy and his name is isaiah and I’ve dated him for 3 years well then we broke up because he got in really big trouble. He likes me again and I like him rite.!? yeah.!?(: hah soo he asked me out and I said yes well then my english teacher told my mom because she saw us making out in the hall and my mom doesnt let me date them because she thinks they are bad. haha reddduloius im abs. in love with them. anywayyys she found out. no need to hide it I figured out lol go for it!

Answer #2

I dont know what I wud do if I were you my parents are real strict as well.. you could just say your going out with your friends like my parents had no idea and I had loads of boyfriends..

Answer #3

Dont hide it girl, that will only make it worse. Show him off to others, you will probably have a lot of haters.. but oh well.. There is NOTHING wrong with an interracial relationship. And besides.. at least you know youll have pretty babies =)

Answer #4

umm, racist? thats just wrong. just tell your mom that you dont agree with her about different races so your going out with him anyway. its not her choice who you go out with . and it doesnt matter if hes black. why should she care? he would be your boyfriend. tell her to get lost! xoxoTina

Answer #5

First of all, being raciest is wrong. Second, its your choice to date. If she doesnt like it then she can just ignore it that your going out with a black guy. Its your life, not hers.

Answer #6

Keep it a secret from your parents. Find a white guy that would be willing to pretend to be your boyfriend while you go out with the other. Make sure he isn’t just any white guy; look for one who would be willing to protect you with his life if anything were to happen. Perhaps your black fella should’ve gotten on the phone with your parents first before asking you out to discuss the whole idea. How old are you?

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