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how can we work things out if my parents wont let us ?

My parents just found out I lost my virginity to my boyfriend who is 16 and im 14 almost 15.. && well of course its against the law and my dad told me I have to break up with him && if I dont we are going to the police. ! but I cant just break up with him b/c of that.. He is my love and my world ! and I dont know what to do ! we still want to be togetherr ! what could I do to be able to still be together ? B/c school is not enought time to be together ! Helppp !

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Answer #1

Pretend to break up with him and then your parents will be satisfied and when you want to meet up with him out of school, say that you’re going into town with a group of friends or something like that.

Answer #2

obey your parents wishes, see him in schoool and such. at least until your fifteen. there will only be a year difference. also, just hangout with him while both of your parents are hoime and supervising. if you really want to see him, you can deal with not being all over him.

Answer #3

hey hes 16 so hes legel, because young not it can be cassifed as rape.

Cant you pretend to break up with him?

Answer #4

well first off now that he is 16 he is legal so when you turn 16 you can date anyone from 16-23… I think that you should just do what they say and let him know that its just into your 16… if its really ment 4 yall 2 work it he will still be there when you turn 16

Answer #5

You are underage. Dont mess around with that. My friend works with sex offenders. She says there are boys in her group who had consensual sex with their girlfriends, but because the girls were underage (one year difference), they got put into juvy and now have a label of sex offender on their record. Also, you’re under 18. Your parents can dictate who you hang out with. Sorry. That’s life.

Answer #6

If you love him you will call it off. Do you really want to see the person you love go to jail?

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