My mom thinks I'm making a mistake

btw we are in a long distance relationship, which makes it so much harder on us.

That’s fine thanks for the advice. But both my boyfriend and I plan to prove her wrong. Because that’s how dedicated to each other we are, we love each other enough not to let others think what we are doing is wrong. We don’t want to be with anyone else. I don’t care if you guys or my mother think I’m naive. That’s fine, people can think what they what. But what I know is that, a person needs to find someone with the same values, and is not in it for just sex, money, what have you. But for actual committment, and that is hard to find in a guy these days. It’s hard to find a guy who already has a steady job with good pay, and the fac that I’m going to school still no matter what. I don’t think I can find anyone better than what I have found. And I am sticking by him no matter what. A person only has their word and I have to trust that if I want this to work.

But thanks for the advice anyways, it just made me want to stay in this relationship even more.

sorry, but I agree with your mother

I agree with your mother too

It’s a coin toss. 50% of marriages end in divorce, more so for relationships. BUT, yours might fall on the good side of the odds. Don’t burn any bridges behind you and go for it.

sorry but I agree with your mother, you never know what might happen and four months isn’t that long, I know you say you’re in love and I believe that but I think you should wait a bit longer before you move in together.

Yeah I decided not too also. But I am moving closer to him. My credits have already transferred to the college close by.