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Did I make a mistake?

Okay here’s the story. A while ago my bf was asking me if I was ready to have sex for the 1st time with him. I said I didn’t think I was ready and I promised I would tell him when I was. Well, just like an hour ago he called me and I told him that I was “ready”. I figured he would be overjoyed, but instead I got an “I’m feeling really tired right now, can I call you back?” It left me feeling uncomfortable and unsure. Did I make a bad decision in telling him??

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Answer #1

i dont think that was a bad decicion at all mabe hes not ready or hes just nervous that youre ready

Answer #2

He’s probably the one not ready, leave him be until tomorrow or something. My bf asked me the same thing once adn yet I’m a proud virgin.

Answer #3

No i dont think u made a bad decicion, maybe he was actually tired, or maybe HE is the one who is not ready at all. All you have to do is talk to him.

Answer #4

when you ask on this site for someone advice and or opinion does this really show that youre ready? you need to feel comfortable darling. take your time. maybe he was tired. call him back later on.

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