How to deal with my life when it sucks?

My life sucks too.I’m also fat,stupid and friendless.It’s hard for me to give you any meaningful advice,just know that there are lots of people out there that are less than perfect and feel pretty bad about the way they look or act around the opposite sex.Good luck c0nfused,I hope things work out for you.

go to school , yeah it might be expensive just get a loan if you can I mean theres people out there that spend 80 g’s on a car your doing this for the career thats going to get you that job, thats how I thought about it now im in fullsail studying recording arts hopefully ill make it somewhere, hope you make it too

It’s not as bad as it seems, you say you live in this fantasy world? Whats that, games? If so, there must be at least 2 million people in your situation. Just think of a motivation, a goal that you would love to reach.

And strive to get it, by setting goals, you’ll never get bored and you never know, you might meet some good people along the way.

I met 100’s of people through the internet and MSN, and one is now actually one of my best friends, i meet many people by playing online games. If that is what you’re into, most people that play those games are awesome, really nice people.

Look for activities in your area, these are fantastic for meeting new people and getting a hobby or even if you’re just looking gor “something to get you out the house” like i was, i joined a cricket club and i go to a college class every thursday and it is always something i look forward to, even when i’m down, it cheers me up to think that i have something to go to, to see friends.

Chin up C0nfused, everything will work out, just stay determined.

…Josh…

I have a couple of ideas for both you guys- First of all, when I was 30 I went through a bad time. Divorce, family death, savings accts emptied behind my back, adultery, false accusations, poverty, depression etc. A very old man saw I was troubled and very parentally put his hand on my shoulder and said, “Pal, nothing is ever as bad as it first appears”. At that moment I disbelieved. But in time I learned to gain much strength from that man. Also, Immerse yourself in audio tapes by Wayne Dyer, Deepok Chopra, Earl Nightingale, etc. Also stop whining and feeling sorry! Get motivated to change! You can become the person you want to be! It’s just a question of how bad do you want it?. Good luck.

Well, you didn’t think it was helpful so i don’t have to act all nice, lighten up, nobody is gonna befriend you when you emo your life up.

i just didnt find it helpful. im antisocial and i dont like the way i look. i dont want to go out and be around people. im embarrassed.