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How can I get my parents not to get a divorce?

they say that it is my fault and I am the reason my mom is moving out! and the police came to my house the other day, cause my dad was mad, and they said to go in the bathroom and lock the door! but he usually not like that if my mom isen’t pissing him off.. like I woke up this morning to my dad and borther seriously SCREAMING at each other about the divorce… I think I am going to run away and go live with one of my frineds or my boyfriend! I am 14

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Answer #1

omg I don’t really know what to say but that was rude of your parents to say it was your fault don’t beleive anything they say there just mad right know and don’t think that just because their your parents that they can’t be wrong it’s not your fault they laid down and did what it took to have you so now they have to deal with what you came with weither the situation is good or bad no one is perfect and if they can’t take it then I don’t know what to say because it’s not your fault to me there just trying to sugar coat it to make it seem like it is your fault but I belive that it’s something else thats causing your parents to go through these hard tymes right now and about the running away situation don’t because then you parents are going to have more to say their going to be like she is nothing but trouble running away from situations like this I know that really deep down in your heart you love the both of them and I know you want to run away I thought about it sooo many tymes but learned that thinking about it or doing isn’t going to solve any of the problems me and my family are facing right now iand I undersand you want to get away from them but don’t run away let them know where your at then go because thats not considered running away because if you do it’s just going to add more hard ache and pain to your families situation

Answer #2

Thats VERY wrong of your parents to do that to you!Dont let them say its your Fn fault!I would run away,But thats not always the best thing.Tell them that they can break up but its not going to be your fault!Then if they don`t listen think about running away.Thats what I would do.

Answer #3

I have been through a similar personal experiance. It’s not right that they are telling you it’s your fault they are getting a devorce. It’s not. I hate to say it but there is nothing you can do to stop this devorce. If it’s going to happen it will. If they are arguing all of the time and making life difficult for you, don’t you think it might be best? It’s not nice to think about I know. If it’s really that bad and getting you down a lot then maybe you could phone a family member and stay with them for a couple of days untill this argueing dies down a bit.

Answer #4

I don’t know… I cant help, cause my ‘rents broke up when I was 2 but mabey if you just chilled at one of your friends houses (or boyfriend if his parents’ll let ya) and dont let your parents know, mabey they’ll get to thinking how much you mean to them both… its also possible that they just dont love eachother anymore. but sayin that you were the reason they’re breaking up is rotten

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