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My husband and I want a child

So my husband and I want a baby and have been trying for a while and where not having any luck we have tried everything. And I would go to the drs if I had incerrence but now that im married I don’t I mean we do everything right I hope and we really wanna a child if you have any ideas please feel free to let me know I know it says you have to have sex before your period like a week before ideas would be great thanks

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Answer #1

You need to track your cycle, once you know how many days are in your cycle it becomes easier. I can see why you haven’t succeeded, because you aren’t paying attention to your body.

Once you know how long your cycle is you can find out your most fertile days, the average is 28 days but for many women its a few days shorter which would change your days. Once you know the length of your cycle you can go here and look at the days: http://www.askdramy.com/ovulationcalc.html

If you have an irregular period that most likely wont work for you, so at that time you need to go buy some ovulation tests so you can test if you’re ovulating that day and if you are there is a very high chance of pregnancy occurring. When you ovulate you’ll experience increased discharge and a temperature dip, so pay attention to your body.

Also there is a product called ‘Pre-Seed’ that is supposed to really help and many women have had great results using it. It’s a sperm-friendly lube for couples trying to conceive because many other kinds of lube actually kill sperm.

If you don’t get pregnant after a year then you and your husband need to go to the doctor and they’ll do tests to find out if maybe you have a low sperm count or any other complications that could be causing you not to get pregnant.

Answer #2

Relax don’t stress too much just enjoy yourselves and if you don’t know when you ovulate then just do it everyday a couple times and I’ve heard that if you elevate your hips after sex like up on a pillow or something to help it travel to the cervix and on …

Some people just take a while and I’ts completely normal especially if you were taking birth control recently. It’s not something that happens right away for some people my sister in law took 6 months with each child they had so just be positive and I would say after 6 months if no luck then maybe go get a count on your husband,

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