my girlfriend wont give me head

my girl, she got forced to give a guy head sometime last year and said that she wont ever do it again even if she isnt forced and wants to. that was in the first month of our relatioship, so I never expected anything like that. then one night at about 4 months she did it, I wasnt expecting it, she was just grinding on my lap and began to kiss my chest then stomach then lower, of course I was supprised because she said she wouldnt, it was really good, the next day she asked me about it and I said I really wasnt expecting it because she said she wouldnt, I did also say it was good. and I havent gotten it since, that was over 3 months ago and I dont get why, she said she is self conscious and that me saying I didnt expect it makes her uncomfortable but it felt good, and I keep hinting I liked it and everything but I still aint getting it, I love her, and I do everything to her, ihave no problem licking her out but it would be nice to get something in return once every now and then wouldnt it??

I dunno what to do, I really do like it and I do love her, im not going to cheat to get head but I would like it once in a while…

any tips anyone? thanks

Answer #1

if your girlfriend is like me I’ve only done it to my boyfriend a couple of times I hate it but when I want to do it I will if not then I wont and if he asks I wont cause I think its wierd and pluss its REALLY gross

Answer #2

Don’t drop hints. Tell her you liked it and would be intrested in doing it again - if she’d like to. And say she has nothing to feel awkward about because she was amazing. And you enjoying being that close to her. Communication is important.

Answer #3

im srry man I think your just going have to wait till she gives it to u… it just might be a 1nce ina great while thing 4 her… if you luv her just wait till shes ready.

Answer #4

I hate suckin di*k, and I see where shes comin from from feeling self cautious cause I do to when im doing it. its just not something a lot of girls enjoy doing, jizz tastes like hot garbage and having poles in your mouth just feels awkward

Answer #5

dude I’m in the same boat as you right now. And my gameplan at the time seems to be working. It may sound a little bit cruel but hey… if it works. I decided that if she wasn’t gonna give me some head, then I wasn’t headin downtown (and believe me, I did it a LOTTT). As time passed she realized it sucked not gettin some lovin down south… the exact feeling that I was havin. So now she trys to make an effort once and while. You should also suggest 69 to her. That takes the pressure and awkwardness out of her nobbin yur member. Good luck to you and all you other guys out there trying to get some bj’s!! PEACEEE!!

Answer #6

I feel your pain and anguish. I only get it on my birthday. one time I bought body frosting and I licked her to finish and then it was my turn so she painted it on me from chest all the way down and started and as soon as she reached my stomach she became nautious and I had to get the dog to lick it off… jk about the dog but I had to take a shower. one time I got her to give me a bj by treating her as nice as possible when she was on her period. period=no sex, therefore the only way she can show her appreciation is with a bj. figure out when her next period is, surprise her with flowers, buy her chocolate, take her out on a nice date and be real sweet and do what she likes and maybe it will work out for you . goodluck soldier!

Answer #7

I didn’t like doing it either, because I would just gag and I just thought it was gross. To help me get over that I would wrap a little peice of fruit roll up around him and he said it was the best head he has ever gotten. I said don’t lie give me advice to give better head he said just don’t gag it really is good.

Answer #8

Try buying flavored condoms.

Answer #9

Yo man if I where you I would joke around and stuff and just trow things out ther.. This is what I do and it works for me.. But then again me and my girl play around and stuff… Or you could trow in some reverse phycallogy… It works I swear!!

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