My girlfriend wont go down on me, but she did to her ex.

Well here’s the deal. My girlfriend of 5 months absolutely refuses to give me head. I asked her why, and she says because her ex made her do it all the time. I got lots of information out of her, and quite a few times it seems she really liked doing it.

She told me that before she even had intercourse with him, that she gave him head, and that she even gave him head while driving one time.

Why wont she give me head? I eat her out all the time, and she really enjoys it, but I ask her to go down on me and she says no. Why is this happening?

Id like to point out I have a job, and she doesnt, im 20, shes 19. Could she be using me for my money to get things from me?

Answer #1

And btw she was a virgin with her ex before they had intercourse for the first time. So she gave him head while she was a virgin.

Answer #2

its probably likley that because she was forced to do it to her ex, its scarred her or if he made her do it or she felt like if she didnt he would break up with her so now she could actually hate the idea of giving head to a guy because of her ex or doing it could bring back all those feelings ect talk to her about it soem more and ask her why she wont keep inmind that its perfectly fine if she says that she doesnt want to but try to find out the real reason why she wont do it to you

Answer #3

Maybe your personal hygeine is not up to the standards she would prefer and does not want to tell you.

Just a thought.

Kiasu

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