What do I do if my girlfriend of 4 months wants to give me head?

so im 15 and this girl im dateing is know asking for it… but call me gay I dont know if im ready for that kind of relationship… but the otherhalf of me says yes… what should I do? what should I tell her? should I go with it to make her happy thats all I want is to make her happy shes everything to me. please help im so confused.

Answer #1

Do not do ANYTHING just to make HER happy. Now I understand you love her and she loves you, trust me, we have relationships of our own.

To start things off, 4 months isn’t enough, especially since you guys broke up once ( from your other post ). Sex and sexual things are meant for love making where the two of you both are ready and both want to do it. It shouldn’t be about making your partner happy and making you feel rushed.

You should just tell her how you feel. Tell her your not ready because your confused. If she truly loves you back, she will accept and support your decision. If she doesn’t, then she clearly doesn’t love you and just wants pleasure.

You aren’t sure of what you want. Sex and sexual things aren’t meant to be confusing. From personal experience, once you start off with head, you guys will get tired of it and want to move up a bit.. Before you know it, your having sex, worried if shes pregnant.

My advice is, tell her to calm down. Springs almost here, enjoy the weather and tell her your clearly not ready. And your not ‘ gay ‘. Your a true man to say what you feel. If your worried that your going to loose her because you say no, then your with the wrong person.

Funmail me if anything.

Good luck!

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