My boyfreind

My boyfreinds friends are all telling him to finger me. He told me and he says he wants to but I said no cause we are young, even tho I want to. But now all his friends pester me what should I do??

Answer #1

Stick to your morals. Don’t let some guy change your beliefs. Your hormones are rushing , your a teen its normal, but don’t give it up. and honestly, I would break up with my boyfriend if his “friends” were doing that , that’s unacceptable. you should have a boyfriend who respects your morals..

Answer #2

You ARE very young. Dont let peer pressure make decisions for you. Its YOUR body, and if your boyfriend cant respect that, then hes not worth being with. You have to realize that this isnt going to be your last boyfriend, so why give every boy you date a piece of you. Thats NOT what dating is about. If you start doing those things now at your age, you will most likely be having sex before your 14. And thats isnt good! Stick to the work NO, and if they cant/wont accept that, maybe you need to find someone who will respect you.

Answer #3

#1 please talk to your boyfriend bout checking his friends..expecially bout being so damn nosy

#2 you WANT IT..so its not pressured per say huh…ok after you do #1 and it work out I wud..just mak sure he knws thats it!!!…well if you want.

and yea find out what you like he dont seem like he wud know…plus search up “getting your cherry popped” theirs a chance he might and it’d be better to know bout it if it does

Answer #4

Your boyfriend’s friends have no business knowing what goes on with you in private. As for your boyfriend, he needs to learn to keep his mouth shut when it comes to your sexlife…or lack of it. And keep in mind men aren’t born with the automatic knowledge on how to pleasure a girl/woman with his fingers. You might want to use your own fingers first, so you know what makes you feel good. You could then teach your boyfriend how to do it right. It seems it would be better for you to find a new boyfriend that doesn’t have a big mouth.

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