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my boyfreind of 5yrs wants to leave because of my kids

MY BOYFRIEND OF 5YRS WANTS TO LEAVE BECAUSE OF MY KIDS. I HAVE 4 BOYS AND MY BOYFRIEND SAYS THAT HE JUST CAN’T DEAL WITH THEM ANYMORE. HE SAID THAT IT IS NOT ME, IT IS THE KIDS. HE SAYS THAT HE LOVES ME, AND HE DOES NOT WANT TO LEAVE ME, BUT HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE AROUND THE KIDS ANYMORE BECAUSE THEY DON’T LISTEN, AND EVERYDAY WE HAVE TO COME HOME A FUSS. MY CHILDREN’S DADDY DOES NOTHING FOR THEM, AND DOES NOT COME TO SEE THEM OR ANYTHING, BUT WHEN MY BOYFRIEND FUSSES THEM, THEY SAY THEY WANT THEIR DADDY AND MY BOYFRIEND SAYS THAT THAT HURTS HIS FEELINGS BECAUSE HE IS BUSTING HIS ASS EVERYDAY TO MAKE SURE THEY HAVE EVERYTHING THEY NEED. I REALLY DO LOVE HIM, AND I DON’T WANT TO LOSE HIM, WHAT SOULD I DO?

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Answer #1

I guess the only option here depending on the boys age is to go to couselling if your bf is willing, it sounds like he may be becos he doesnt want to leave. He prob feels like your boys take advantage of him after all he does and he doesnt want to feel that way anymore. You have to talk to your boys, maybe take them to some couselling 1st and if it goes well then get your bf to come along so they talk to each other and bond.

Answer #2

well the onlii thing u can do is try to make him stay and make ur kids listen and teach them manners

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