Mum & Her New Boyfriend.

dude Im so going through the same and me and my mom have been living together for 5 years. then my mom started dating this guy and he is a doctor but he does not like me and I don’t like him either so we have a problem but my mom does not see that but the guy your mom is dating sounds like if he is OK so just try doing some activity with him like hiking thats a good activity because there you have to work together but make sure is just you and him.

You need to be patient it takes time to accept a man into your mom’s life. your right though you don’t want to share and it’s always hard to think about your parents especially your mom like doing some guy and stuff it seems like they shouldn’t do that or something LOL. it’s not going to be easy and with him living so far away if they like each other a lot things could change such as him moving there or even in with you so you better try to get to know him but also becareful remember he’s a guy just be cautious always!

I think your a little jealous for both you and your dad. I think that deep inside you still think your parents will get back together. And I think your more attatched to your mom so your kind of jealous of her new boy friend but you need to understand your mom has to move on. your dad did. And by what you said it sounds like hes ok. I thnk your just blaming your moms new boyfriend but that deep inside you know it’s not his fault.

Yeah your right. The thing is - he lives on a farm right and Mum keeps telling me that he’ll never leave the farm. He likes working on the outdoors. And if I say something like “Lets do something next year” etc she says “We might be living with Antony by then” Like she always pops that into our convos and its really anoying. I know they like eachother but im so scared im going to lose my mum… And I feel real guilty because sometimes I wish the long distance relationship wont work out for them.

My Mum and I are very close I live with her and my sister…we were happy just the 3 of us until my mums new boyfriend comes along, everything changed we saw less of her and she always ignored us, he’s round every weekend, me and my sister find ways for them to start rowing or sumthing but it never work I dont like him being around…the last boyfriend my mum had I learned to accept him and like him a bit more but then he left, either way I always end up getting hurt therefor I dont let people in any more…life’s hard we always fight and I hate it, I just want it back to the way its was I want it to be over but dont want to see my mum get hurt.