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Should I move out now or stay miserable?

Me and my mom a lot lately Its been about the same thing. I Cry and I tell her the same thing over and over again. It about me not doing anything around the house. When I do. She always just expects me to know what to do and when to do it, But I told her if she wants sumthing Done she just has to ask me, She still doesnt ask me. And gets Mad at me. It makes me very depressed. I am Thinking about moving in with my father ABout 2 hours away. It also where my boyfriend lives I Think It would be a good idea but Going Frum a Small town to a big city is such a change. Should I move?

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Answer #1

you should sit down with your mom and say “ mom , I know you want me to do this and that , but I can’t know what to do if you don’t tell me what to do “ and tell her to write a list of what she wants you to do , but if she dosen’t listen to you , move out if you really think you should

Answer #2

If your Mother and Father are not together, she has been through a lot… her anger is not at you but she has to vent. Don’t give up! Look around the house and try to see what she is seeing. Full garbage can, dirty dishes, unmade beds, floor needs cleaning, dusting… You can see and just start doing something. Walk aroung with a wet rag and start cleaning, just wipe dust off of things… if she asks, What the Hell are you doing, just say I thought you might like a little help around here, kind of through it back at her… If she dosen’t understand, take the advice form gurug1012 and be blunt and ask her “what do you want from me”. I hope this helps and let me know what happends!

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