Should I move out or try to stay home?

Hello again. Okay I have a little bit more insight into your situation. As Harley stated, you are 21 years old the days of having to ‘sneak’ around with your b/f who you’ve been with for 4 years should be over. You are grown and should be allowed to make your own decisions. Only problem when you are under your parents roof, there’s the “GOLDEN LAW” you have to obey the rules. Which is why I can understand you wanting to move out especially if you mom is controlling and over protective. Parents in general really just want the best for us and have a hard time dealing with the fact that we are grown and can make our own choices, being the youngest in the family I know. There’s no reason why you shouldn’t move out, if thats what you really want to do. Life’s to short to be miserable constantly. It’s cool if your guy is going to help you out, but you also should make sure that you can handle things on your own. Because you just never know anything can happen and you don’t want to dependent on anyone, even though I hope everything goes well for you. Just keep in mind what I said before and you should be fine. If you are going to do it then do it right. Good luck.

You are 21 and an adult. If you want to move out you can. If you move out make sure you can financially support yourself. You need to rely on your own money incase your boyfriend can’t help you out. Are you going to live alone or with him, if its with him then you will be splitting the bills. If you are both working it will be easier. At the end of the day you are old enough to see who you want as well. Your mother cares and looks at your past with your boyfriend and worries, but if things are different now and you can show her that there aren’t any problems then maybe she will come around to accepting that you are with him and you can stay at home.

Good Luck

ya i have to move out too:( time to move on in lifeget back to me if u want help tbz_finest@hotmail.com

THANKS AND ILL BE LIVING BY MYSELF BUT HE WILL COME OVER SOMETIMES BUT HE ALSO SAID HE WOULD GIVE ME MONEY TO PAY SOME OF THE BILLS