How to get more freedom?

Hi I want to have more freedom but my parents dont let me. They make me do my homework first and take a helmet if I want to go skateboarding. They always want to know where im going and make sure im not in trouble. I want to act like a teen and be one so how can I get more freedom?

Answer #1

It sounds like they really love you! I know it may seem like other teens have it better, with so much freedom, but they don’t. It’s just that their parents don’t really care what happens to them. I used to really resent the strictness of my parents, now I am SO thankful for it! My best friend and I had basically the same upbringing, same neighbourhood, except my parents were strict and hers weren’t. I’m now a happy and successful Uni student. She’s a single mum on a pension. We’re still really close, and I love her and her kid, but I honestly think I was better off, even though I used to be really jealous of her!!!

Answer #2
  1. Homework is important. If you want to get into a good college and get a good job, you need to get good grades.

  2. If you don’t wear a helmet you are risking your life. Seriously. A helmet is one of the best pieces of sports equipment ever. It keeps you safe. Now that I’ve said that.. do you see why your parents want you to wear it?

  3. They want to know where youre going because they are your parents. They care about you. Also, they want to know where you are incase there’s an emergency. If something were to happen to a family member, you’d want to know. So if they know where you are, they can easily find you.

If you really don’t see why your parents set these guidelines, then talk to them. It’s the best thing you can do.

Answer #3

hmmm… maybe you should do what your told geez and email your buddy in Washington who your parents let you visit all by yourself… remember??? hmmm!!!

Answer #4

well, the homework thing is a good thing I think..now the helmet, they wana make sure your safe..but I know what you meen.. my mom doesnt make me wear a helmet, but I know how you feel..try talkin 2 them..

Answer #5

Growing up is very difficult—for both you and your parents. They remember a little bundle of joy that they held and nurtured as a baby and now they see a budding adult. These days, children face things and know about things that their parents would never have imagined at the same age. The teenagers of today look older, act older and want to be older than their counterparts did just 20 years ago. It is the desire of all parents for their children grow up in the way that they should go (loving, caring, respectful, and being of good solid character). It is necessary that you truly understand that your parents have your best interests at heart. They will withhold privileges, set limits, and raise you to the best of their ability (neither they nor you are perfect), but be Thankful - They Care - many, many, many don’t. Ask them for guidance and seek to understand what truly motivates their decisions. One of the best ways to prove your maturity and prove that you are ready for more trust is to be respectful of your parent’s wishes and accept their guidance. Learn how to communicate love, honor, and respect to each other.

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