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How can I get freedom from my parents?

Ok so im 13 and my parents drive me insaneee. Everytime im wanna go to the movies or somethin my mom always has to know whos going, what moive, are there boys going and she always make me have her call and friend so she can drop them of too. My parents let me have NO freedom what so ever. They log all of my aim’s that I send and receve, check my a social site, look at my texts and I can keep nuthing from them. I get grounded almost every weekend fer swearing, saying bad things and whatever I just got ground yesterday fer bein at mc donalds with my frends at 9pm after a football game. They dont let me go and walk around the city or let me stay out late with frends I have to call every hour or theyll show up wherever I am without calling [[its happend before]] They think grounding me does everything and thinks it will teach me a lesson but I dont care one fckin bit. They take away my ipod, laptop&&cell phone. And after im done bein grounded I have to “gain ther trust back” They think im turning bad and doing drugs &sht but whatever. My dad hates when I have a boyfrend er somethin its soo anoying there not gonna let me grow up WOW I hate themm…

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Answer #1

go on google and research abducted children. after reading a few of those cases im sure youll be happy your parents protect you the way they do.

Answer #2

I’ve got the same problem,only I actually have gotten caught at drugs,but I’m slowly regaining their trust,and they’re giving me a few more things in return for trying to do my best at everything and what not(or at least they think I’m doing good at everything)

Answer #3

at age 13, these rules all seem pretty reasonable. stop complaining and when you get a little older you’ll see yourself getting a l;ittle more freedom

Answer #4

They’re only trying to protect you. But I definetly know how you feel, being a teen myself. You just really need to earn their trust and show them that you can keep it/

Answer #5

they’re just trying to protect yu. they are being parents. yu have to earn the rights to go places. and theyll ease up after awhile. they love yu. no matter what yu think. they just want what is best fr yu. it may seem unfair right now but, yull thank them later. (harmony hearts)

Answer #6

Being a teenager is definately hard…but…being a parent of a teenager is definately harder.

You’re only 13, you’re not supposed to have a lot of freedom, they’re supposed to watch you and protect you…if they don’t protect you then who will?

You have to earn respect and trust and you’re proving to them that you’re not worthy of either. Don’t be another teenage brat that complains about everything…do what they want and show them that they can trust you, otherwise you’re going to be “grounded” forever.

Answer #7

Yeah, well, they’re being parents, so you’re just going to have to deal with that.

Just be happy that your parents care enough for you to actually take that kind of control over you…and from the sounds of it, you need a little discipline. Your lack of respect won’t get you anywhere in life…stop being so ungrateful.

We need more parents like yours…teens these days are out of control.

Answer #8

They’re only trying to protect you. You shouldn’t say you hate them, either.

Answer #9

omg give her a break !!! just tell her how you feel if that dosent work then screww her b* x sorry its just that im grounded too for telling my mum to piss off so now as you cn gess I am really pissed off haha xx

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