How to cause a miscarriage?

You have a few more options than you think at 13. First of all, abortion or miscarriage is not your only choice fortunately. If there is anyone adult in your life that is credible that you can talk to then my advice would be to sit down and confide in them. Your choices are to have the baby and keep the baby, have the baby and allow someone to adopt and someday when your older you can actually try to reconnect with this child which can be a beautiful situation, the bible is very clear and says “that shalt not kill” so consider this when your are making your decision. This same situation happened to me years ago when I was young and God’s grace got me through the abortion but I have always regretted my decision and someday I know I will see my 1st child in heaven. I was also very scared and thought this was my only option because I was an aspiring basketball player and had lots of opportunities for college scholarships, etc in my future. I encourage you to think about your life and what you want to do in your life, where is your future and what do you see yourself doing in 5-10 years? If you have goals to go to college and be able to make it on your own then adoption might be a better choice. Don’t allow peer pressure and the fear of rejection to force you to make a poor decision. The truth is your a very young woman by American standards to have and take care of a child yourself. In many cultures such as mexico young women have babies at that age and raise the children. Ultimately the decision is yours and you should try and think about the child growing inside of you as well as yourself and your future. The child deserves to live regardless if you made a mistake or not and you are human and made a mistake. There are lots of people in this country that are willing to adopt your child and as a matter of fact, I have a friend that recently gave birth and lost her child. The pain that woman feels because she is barren is incredible and she is now even considering adoption. If you don’t know much about adoption and the process then look in the phone book or internet and start calling some places to find out more about it. I feel for you and will be praying that you make the right decision for you and the child in your womb. God bless you and this child!