What if I'm in love with my ex but I'm married?

Bravo bscajunmommi30! Well said. If your current marriage is not good and you want out, make that happen not because you want to be with someone, but because you want to be happy. Maybe seeing your ex and having old feelings come up is the push you needed to end a bad relationship. The feelings you have for your ex may not be love. After all, you have not seen each other for a long time. If you find yourself easily falling for someone else, you need to look at what is going on in your current situation. What are you missing? Divorce is not an answer, but neither is an affair. You should never start a relationship before ending another one. Do what you need to do for you first. Then when you begin a new venture with someone else, you can feel good about yourself. You will be starting something with honesty. Starting anything with a lie is never good. If things work out with the ex, great! Even if they don’t, you still have a guilt-free conscience!

I wish you the best and watch out for that stick.

There is this one quote that someone once told me. “Never leave the once you love for the one you like. Because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.” I don’t know if that helps any. But when I read your situation that quote popped in my head. Good Luck.

if u dont feel right about ur marriage, break it off but be sure that ure not doing that just for the ex cux that could be dangerous

Disscuss this question with your present husband. Maybe he will give you some freedom.