What do I do, I'm in love with my ex

I am in love with my ex boyfriend… that I broke up with a few months ago. He was devastated I and everyone else could tell… he really liked me. but I was still in love with my previous boyfriend and it wasn’t fair to him. we only went out for 2-3 days… and It’s been a few months and he knows that I like him I asked the counselor at school to kinda talk to him. But how do I ask him and do you think he will take me back, it hurts not being with him. I love him… He’s a Senior, I’m a Junior. He’s 16 I’m 16… I love him, he was starting to love me… god… =’[ what the hell do I do to make him see if he takes me back I will be there for him, no matter what. I want to stay with him, till I die. It;s a long time I know… but I am willing… I love him…

Please tell me… what do I do?

~ Bexx

Answer #1

you can’t just play around with his heart. dump him- then want him back. I think it’s best that you talk to him and tell him what you just said. but only if your sure that’s what you want, and your not going to break his heart again.

Answer #2

Its not always easy to just start over. He got hurt when you dumped him, knowing you still had feelings for your ex, hes not just going to get over that. If you really cared about him, you wouldnt have dumped him in the first place. You shouldnt have started dating him until you had your feelings all sorted out first!

Answer #3

I dumped him because I was still having feelings for my ex. and even though I dumped him, I cried for a week. because I loved him and he wouldn’t talk to me. I talk to him now and he talks to me but we aren’t close like before. I want to sit him down and say “I know I’m made mistakes, and I know that I’ve played with your heart but if you give me a chance I’ll do everything right this time. I never meant to hurt you. I care deeply about you and if you aren’t ready to be with me just tell me we can be friends and let things settle down like that. I just wanted you to know that I care about you dearly. I’m sorry about our past but I feel we can have a better future. What do you say?”

tell me what you think.

~Bexx

Answer #4

You went out with him for 2-3 days when you dumped him, because you still “loved” your last ex, now your saying you are in “love” with the this ex? Hun, I think you need to learn what “love” is, before you have a whole fleet of exes. You cant just play around with peoples feelings, because it leads to hurt, and resentment! Open your heart to someone new, because you cant have a happy future if you keep living in the past.

Answer #5

Yes, I know but I was confused, and I needed someone to hold and love me… I guess I only thought about what I needed… the fact is I need to know how to et him back… He’s all I have and he’s all I want. I don’t want anyone else. I don’t feel for anyone else the way I feel for him

~Bexx

P.S. how did that sound the thing I told him I wanted to say,

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