Loss of libido?

I have been with the same boy for 1 and a half now. When we first started dating he was always sexually charged. Up until a few months ago he always wanted to have sex and I enjoyed it. He has been stressed for a while. He suddenly doesn’t initiate sex or even seem that interested. He says he is, but I know differently. Is it me that changed this? Will it ever be the same?

Answer #1

No, don’t blame yourself it happens in every relationship. The “honey moon period” is officially over. The times when you would rip of each others clothes is a thing of the past.

It doesn’t mean you have to stop having sex all together though. One thing to do if you have unmatched libidos is just do it! Once you start you will get in to the mood, you will just have to initiate it more. Stress takes a big toll on your sex life so how about relaxing him. have a romantic bath, nice lavender oils, candles and a massage I am sure he will be relaxed in no time.

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