Lonely. .how to stop feeling this way?

I had a boyfriend about 9 months ago and we went out for 6 months but I ended it cause I felt the relationship was going nowere. . .but latley I have missed having som1 there to cuddle with and someone to be there . . .my best friend has got a boyfriend that she has been with for ages and I am really happy for her . . I have tried to just think about somthing else like school but I cant help it but I want a boyfriend really bad and I know you cant make someone ‘like’ you and the person I like dosnt like me like that :( . . .its really making me unhappy can anyone advise me on how to stop feeling this way. . . . . ? ~thanks~

Answer #1

I know exactly how you feel girl, its hard because im basically in the same situation. basically I just try not to think about it because it just brings me down more. I spend time with my good friends, and talk to them about it. they help me out, but really all you can do is wait and you’ll know when the right guy comes around. you just cant rush it.

Answer #2

hey I once felt this when my ex boyfriend cheated on me and dumped me (long story) anyways the thing I found helped myself was to do stuff like hang out with friends or concentrate on my life and do things I’ve always wanted to do make the most out of your life because trust me once you find someone I guarentee at one point you will be wishing for that single life back embrace the fact that your single have fun pamper urself be happy because it wont last forever good luck ;)

Answer #3

It’s hard when you have nobody and all of your friends have somebody. It’s natural to have these feelings of loneliness. However, don’t make the mistake of taking just anyone to help relieve the loneliness - that usually ends up as a bad situation.

Have patience, the right person will come along (it always happens when you least expect it to). I can’t say that you should stop feeling lonely - we don’t manage our own hearts as much as we wish we did. Spend time with good friends and try to keep your mind off having a boyfriend.

Good things come to those who wait.

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