Would you kick your cousin out because your boyfriend thinks there's something going on?

my moms bf told her to kick her cousin out or else he was going to leave, her bf has barley been here for about 3 months and has barely started giving my mom money for rent, food, utilities. hes always accusing her of stuff. i told her that this was going to far, that there was no reason to kick her cousin out. That if he wanted ti leave to let him leave.

Answer #1

Personally to me I wouldnt. Guys come and go but family is forever and you can’t turn on them. He doesn’t sound like the best quality over a cousin….

Answer #2

I wouldn’t. If my boyfriend or girlfriend didn’t trust me, especially with family members, then the relationship is in trouble anyways.. I’d need my partner to trust me. If they can’t trust me, they can go.

Answer #3

How can you make someone else realize this though??

Answer #4

“ Bros before Hoes” its the same concept with family. would you marry someone if they hated your children? why throw out family when a boyfriend ( who doesnt even seem like a good one) doesnt trust you?

Answer #5

that’s what i would like my mom to answer for me.. =/

Answer #6

The only thing you can do is explain to her how you feel. Tell her you’re concerned, and then tell her why it is that you feel that way. If you give her examples of things that concern you and why, it would at least give her something concrete to go by. If you’ve done this, however, then it’s really up to her to decide the rest.

Answer #7

if there is no trust, there is no relationship..the truth is in a reltionship,its not love that revolves around the couple its really trust and loyalty. XD

Answer #8

He thinks there’s something going on between you and your cousin?? even if it was his cousin O_O that is a crazy accusation. but anyways, is he doesn’t trust you, then move on. Relationships should be built on trust, love and communication. Don’t kick the cousin out, he probably is unaware of whats even going on, and even if he is.. he isn’t to be blamed for your boyfriends lack of trust.

Answer #9

The guy sounds like a controlling prick… no offense. Look, he moved in with her. It isn’t his place so he doesn’t get to make the rules. Her cousin was there first. If he threatens to leave, then say I’ll help you pack your bags. And as previously mentioned… if he doesn’t trust her with her own cousin… then he is controlling and has self esteem issues. She can do better.

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